POISON OR FRUITS 🍇? ?
Happy new week family. I can’t believe it’s days to Christmas🎄!I am just taking time to enjoy 😊 all the vibes the season is bringing to me , from the decor and the snow ⛄️⛄️ That has constantly been falling since Friday, and in the part of England 🏴 where I live , I tell you , the snow ❄️ came for us this year and I just stepped out of my home 🏠 this morning. But in all situations, we should give thanks and not complain ,like I said earlier , enjoying every moment . Don’t let me bore you , how did u spend ur weekend ?
Today’s gist is so important . A lot of times , some things happen to us not because we deserve it, but it’s all to our ignorance about some vital things in life . If there is one thing, I don’t joke with in this world 🌍, it’s WORDS! I don’t patronise anyone speaking negative words around me .
Sincerely speaking , I was not like that in the past but over the years as I am growing and with my Beautiful mom constantly grooming me to be the best woman , she made me understand the consequences of words and I now had a clearer version of words that proceeds out of our mouth. I tell you what , words that comes out of your mouth can be either poison ☠️ or fruits 🍉, YOU are the only one that gets to choose what it will be for you . Is all in your hands . Lately when friends and family close to me come to me and said they had a dream about me , what I do is I take the good part and reject the bad part and I pray about it .
Let me tell you a little story from my personal experience;
If you are close to me , and you take a look 👀 at my legs , you would realise that I have a scar . The scar was from an accident I had sixteen years ago.😊
That year , I was studying for my first degree at (Lautech), those days , I enjoyed going for parties as that was the only way we chose to socialise then 😁😁😁😁. All we do is totravel outside the school to a location and all we do with the rest of the crew is to dance 💃🏽, wine 🍷, eat and chat all through the night and now I just laugh 😂 when I remember those days .
I remembered that fateful night I was invited for another party with my friends , One of our housemate that was not invited said this to me “Lambam what if you have accident tonight as it’s too late to travel out of town “.
She jokingly said it , I gave those words no thought 💭 because I knew she did not mean it . As soon as I was picked with the rest of my friends and on starting the journey , just 250 meters away, all of a sudden , tyre came off the car and guess what the driver was super drunk 😵 and we all in the car started screaming like our screams was going to save us 😁😁, what I thought was this was the end ;the car managed to enter a ditch as it happened in the middle of a busy road , it could have been worse, but God prevented it and we are all alive today but we had scars to remember. I guess it’s because of a day like this so I can share a few lessons I learnt that day with you .
LESSON 1Words are not eggs, they are SEEDS! Once it’s sown, it yields more fruits . What kind of seed are you sowing and allowing others to sow into your life ? Pro 12:6
ent ! I had every right to have rebuked that statement, but I did not , why should I ? I knew she did not mean it . But , what I did not understand then was once a word is spoken , (negative or positive) it is automatically sown, and if you don’t want to reap the fruits , you need to sow a seed as well, by SPEAKING the kind of fruits you want to see. In my case , I was silent and just waved it off , the seed did not germinate, However,left a scar for many years .
Let me put this to you today , what words are you allowing to just slide down in the name of “its a joke or he/she didn’t mean it “?
When it comes to WORDS! There is no such as joke ! It might be costly if care is not taken . STOP JOKING WITH YOUR FUTURE! The word framed the world we are . There is power in it . People close to me knows when they interpret the dreams they had about me , I take my time to listen and cancel all the negatives and right on the spot I tell them , this is not my portion. Words can make you and break you . So be mindful .
_____________________________ Parents , this is for you . Please shield your children from people. I will tell you another story soon about this . It’s for another day , don’t let people sow negative 👎 words into their lives, before it drop , rebuke it .
Stop 🛑 speaking negative words out of frustration or anger , those words germinate and bear more fruits .
That’s for today guys ! I hope it inspires you to start speaking positivity to your life . Have you had any experience regarding words ? Please drop comments below , I would love to read from you as well . And please share this post as u might not know , this might be for someone close to you . There is love in sharing .
Till my next post ; watch what you say ! Pro 18:21. Words kill, give life , they are either poison or fruits –YOU CHOOSE….