Hello beautiful people! I know you still enjoying the holiday season as I am . Before I forget , are you here for the first time or re-visiting the blog ? Both ways , I want to thank you for stopping by and you can still take another step of love by subscribing and following the blog . This means so much to me ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I have been thinking 💭 seriously about year 2018, and how I can motivate myself and my readers . The main reason I felt today’s post is much needed. A lot of us might not ask for it but we all need it . So sit back and read 👌🏼

Be bold ! Yes you have to bold . One of the most important trait we all need in the coming year . As a woman of colour, we are all told we can’t wear a particular lipstick 💄 or a particular hair colour , or a hair style can’t go for us . So many comments I have heard in my life . “You are too dark “, “This won’t good on your skin ” , ” You can’t wear a red lipstick “. The good news is all these statements are all false .Don’t be pushed by what they are saying .

My message here is so simple ! It does not matter who you are or what they think you are , you have to bold and follow your heart .

I tell you what , every beginning of a year , I challenge myself to do something bold and different, the same way I am here to challenge you guys to take that bold step and do something you have never tried before as long as it is a positive step that will improve your overall growth.

The truth is couple of years ago , I used to think only a hair style can fit me, till I discovered if I don’t try others, I won’t know if they will look good one me . I have actually tried different hair styles and have been good about myself at least I took a bold step in that part of my life . It might sound so small but is something.Also lately , I have been daring myself by the new year , all my new hair has to be blonde , ombré and some other colours have been loving lately . There is no harm in trying new trends .

The bold move does not have to be necessarily mean hair , it can be that passion you have interest in , that clothing styles , career growth , getting more certification, wearing new lipstick shades , relationship wise , business wise , writing a book , branding , change of jobs to a more fulfilling one ☝️ and so on .

I will tell you the only person standing in your way is you , you need to re visit your confidence level and upgrade it to achieve all you want . Sometimes if you wait on people ‘s validation, you are on a long thing ! They won’t make you see your worth or potential for reasons best known to them 🤗🤣🤣🤣🤣. I know some steps can be very scary , I totally get it . But all I can tell you is just to make that move in believing in yourself , empower yourself, because time is not our friend , by the time you realise you are already 50 years ! We only have one life time and we have to use it wisely by living in the present

I was having a conversation with my sister some days ago and I told her that some people in their life time will not experience other people’s culture or even try new things outside their comfort zones before they die . I further said to her even some people will never try new foods , travel , etc and she replied me ” Lambam you are right , all you hear is next year I will do it and before they know , time will have passed “. We just have to present in this moment .

Let us make steps to try our new things , you don’t have to like straight away , but you can sit back and say , yes I have tried it , have done it , have been there . If you don’t do it for you , nobody will tell you to do it .

One vital thing I will like to drop as well is , our skin tone does not determine what we want to do or achieve. Location should not be a barrier in getting things done for your life . Don’t let others dictate your pace for you . I know deep down inside you , there is something you are willing to try but you are just scared of people putting you down or you think it will not be accepted. Says who ! When I started my YouTube channel , I had no clue on what it was all about , even my canon camera that I use for recording, I could not even record well as it took me a while to understand what a focus is , funny 😂. But I decided I wanted to start filming and I took that step , even though I am still learning everyday and I don’t even have many subscribers, it’s not going to stop me. I know where I am going and I want that for me . I will keep filming and not stopping anytime soon. A lot of people criticised me , even when I film a good one , they won’t commend me , but one little mistake , they tell me ! I see all these as learning process for me. I don’t want to bore you today with my own little story 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

I want to put it to you today to be bold ! So this time next year , you can say you tried to do this and that ! I tell you , there is no better feeling in life than feeling accomplished. Try new things , new colours fro pink , red , head wraps , etc . It’s all about you darlings! And no one else .

So today , I challenge you to be fierce, don’t say “I can’t “. I believe in you all . You are all beautiful, gifted , talented . There is no harm in experimenting and doing what no one around you has never done before .

What I want you to do for me is to comment below what new things you are willing to try in the new year ! What are those things you have been wanting to do but you think about how people will accept it ? I hope you grab my message because this message is so important to me and I want us to charge ourselves


If you enjoyed reading this post , share with your friends and loved ones .

Before I end this post today , I leave this for you to add it to your affirmation ” I will not limit myself in 2018.

Stay bless.


Hi I’m Lambam, mental health worker currently living in London . I love to inspire and motivate people around me with my positivity and words of encouragement as i understand that life is full of blessings and lessons . I also love fashion, beauty like every other women .

Comments (0)

  1. Follow your heart,no limitation! Thanks for those encouraging &educated posts for the past months.😍👌👍

    1. Awwww Thank you so much 😊.😘😘😘😘

  2. What a lovely post..im inspired to try new things.. I may just go on that low cut with the blonde highlights (hair) I have been thinking about..lol💃💃.

    Merry Christmas!🎄

    1. Awww that’s so good to hear , please do and you will glad you took the step at the end of the day . Thanks for reading 📖..

  3. This is one of your best posts . And it comes at the right time as the year is rounding up. Thank you for this beautiful reminder. God bless u👏. May God help us as we take any bold step towards something great in 2018.🤗

    1. Awwww your comment feels like a huge Christmas 🎄 present 🎁 that I’ve been waiting to be delivered by mail . God bless you mega Sis . Amen 🙏 to your prayer 😘😘😘😘


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