6 Things i really wished people shouldn’t overlook

I am all about personal development and if you remember in one of my previous post, I  wrote that 2018 is my year of intentional living. This is the link to the post http://www.lambamsworld.com/2018-my-year-for-intentional-living/

I felt some habits shouldn’t be overlooked as they can affect our life . what is Habit?   Habit is a routine or behavior that is repeated regularly and tend to occur subconsciously. I totally understand forming new habit is fun and easy, but stopping old ones are quite difficult .

I hope this post guide us ./

  1. SAY THANK YOU MORE –   A lot of us feel entitled to everything, deserve this and that “. When someone gives you an opportunity in whatever way, you should say thank you. They have a choice not to, but they gave you, saying thank you to them is a sign of respect. I try so hard to make this my habit on a daily basis. I understand we can forget . Try extending your thank you and see how far it will get you in life.
  2. BE POSITIVE – Positivity  is one thing that’s helped my life to this stage. I  have so many things that’s happening to me that can make me to be negative, so don’t think my life is  perfect . Being positive will boost your confidence on a high level and give you a brighter look towards life. please stay positive at all time .
  3. MAKE THINGS HAPPEN –    Don’t think someone will always rescue you all the time , they are also flowing in their life jacket. In as much people can assist you in their way does not mean they will leave their lives and live yours for you. It’s your life , so you have to make things happen by finding ways of dealing with some life issues sometimes. Take actions and stop fantasizing someone is coming to help you.
  4. AVOID PROCRASTINATION –   So this is one important thing I  need to change and embrace more this year. If you really want to get something done in life, I know we are all guilty of it but I  hope we find courage to stop procrastinating.
  5. NO EXCUSES –  I  can’t count how many excuses have heard from people, it bleeds my heart and I  asked them “how many excuses are you going to make “. Stop giving excuses in life. I have several excuses why I could be a failure. Life circumstances are different from life determinant. Stop using your upbringing as an excuse , its your job now to figure things, recognize  the gaps, work on it and move to the next level in life.
  6. BE A GOOD LISTENER –  Don’t be a lousy listener. If there is one thing I have learnt in managing people, I found that a lot of people don’t listen . I see listening as a huge problem in our community. It causes so much rifts, disagreement because most people think for you.. Listening is active and hearing is passive. poor listening skills causes so much havoc even among family members. Lousy listeners are planning already on how to answer you whilst you are talking. I watch people closely and got to know most of us are lousy listeners.

                                CONCLUSION

And there you have them all !!    I hope you were inspired by these?

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LB….xoxo…………


Hi I’m Lambam, mental health worker currently living in London . I love to inspire and motivate people around me with my positivity and words of encouragement as i understand that life is full of blessings and lessons . I also love fashion, beauty like every other women .

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  1. Nice post. Good to learn daily👍👍👍

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    1. It’s so important , thank you for reading 📖💕

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  2. Great post! I am working on a couple of things from this list. Thanks for sharing girl! Great reminder

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    1. Thanks so much hun ! 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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      1. You are welcome girl!

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  3. I couldn’t agree more with this list! A lot of people take things for granted, a simple thank you goes such a long way and really makes a difference. I believe being positive is really important to! The type of energy you put out there is what you receive. Stay positive folks! 😊

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    1. Thank you for taking your time to read and sharing with us your ideas as well . It means so much to me 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

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  4. I totally agree with you my dear.. Very interesting post <3

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    1. Thank you so much love 💕

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  5. This is such a nice list! It’s so great to be reminded of this.

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    1. Yes, is so great to have a kind of remainder sometimes as we all forget little things 😉😉. Thank you for stopping by 😘

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  6. I completely agree, I wish people wouldn’t over look these things either! Small things that carry a lot of weight are often overlooked these days!

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    1. You are so right ! Little things count so much 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼. Thank you for reading 📖.

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  7. This is great! I’m pretty good about active listening, saying thank you, and not blaming others but procrastination can be an issue for me. I think I spread myself too thin, then feel overwhelmed and then I feel like quitting before I really even get going. I’m going to really work on this.

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    1. Awwww I can relate with procrastination issue too, I am still working on that myself . Sending you all my love and positivity 💜💜💜💜💜

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  8. ❤❤ all these tips. Listening more instead of talking is part of the changes I intend to make this year because even though I listen but I feel talk more. This is further confirmation to show I need to work on that aspect. Thank you😚😚😚

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    1. Thank you for reading 📖 the article as usual ✨✨✨✨💜💜. I can’t love you less . Listening 👂more is also one thing am working on as well . It’s a big struggle 😀😀😀😀😀.

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  9. What a great list of things to pay attention to! I’ve certainly got the saying thank-you nailed (maybe that’s the Canadian in me), but I’m actively working on my positive thinking and procrastination – increasing the former and decreasing the later. Take care 🙂

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    1. So glad you are greatly inspired by the article and I was as well when writing ✍️. Thank you for stopping by Hun ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    1. You are so right and I thank you for adding your words of wisdom to this article. I agree with all you wrote . ✨✨✨✨✨👌🏼

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      1. Thanks too for the great post

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    2. Thank you for reading and sharing with us some words of wisdom . As human , we tend to overlook little things sometimes . I agree with all you wrote 🌸🌸💜

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      1. Thanks too for your knowledgeable post

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    3. Thank you for reading and sharing your words of wisdom . I agree totally with you 🌸✨✨✨✨

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    4. Thank you for reading 📖 and sharing with us your tips .

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  10. Great reminders for every day! Thanks!

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    1. Thank you for reading Hun 🌸

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  11. I loved n.3! You can’t think of having the life of your dreams in you don’t work hard for it! Thanks for the motivation as always!

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    1. Thanks so much darling, that’s such a lovely compliment 😍😍😍😍

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